Me, my Grandpa, and the Oakland A's!
It was the summer of 1980, I was a young boy, 7 years old, and about to attend my first A's Game. I remember being very excited about going and I knew it was a big deal to go to a "real" baseball game. My Mom had me all set up with a new A's cap and T-shirt and I was ready to go. This day was going to be great, me, my Mom and my Grandpa enjoying a baseball game together. I don't remember much about the game, who the A's were playing or what the final score was. I do remember seeing Crazy George standing on the dug out encouraging the fans to cheer on the A's. I was hooked and this is what set me up to be an A's fan for the rest of my life.
I would attend several more games through my preteen years, many times going with my parents and many times going with my Grandpa. My Grandpa was a ticket taker at the Coliseum for many years and he really loved that job, he got to watch the games of his beloved A's for free once he was done taking tickets. You see, my Grandpa wasn't rich, he worked as a clerk at Safeway all his career and he really valued being able to work at the games and as he would say, get paid to watch the A's.
When I was in High School I would attend as many games as possible, my Grandpa would go with me when he could. He sure loved to see the A's win and man was he a fan of the Home Run. Most of these games we would just sit out in the left field bleachers and enjoy the sun, the game, and chatting about sports. When I graduated from High School I was given the greatest gift ever, season tickets for the A's. That was in 1991, so these were good times to be an A's fan, they were at the end of their of World Series appearances but they were still a darn good team. I renewed those season tickets that were given to me, every year for ten years.
My Grandpa lived alone in Hayward and as I grew older, him and I grew closer. We would still attend A's games and I would go visit him at home. Sometimes, I would pop in and we would go to his favorite restaurant, Banchero's, in Hayward. Every time that I would go over we would talk about sports, usually the A's and the Raider's his two favorite teams. He would get so upset about some of the "dumb" moves that he thought these teams were making. He didn't understand much about the stats of the game, just what he read in the paper and saw with his own two eyes,this is how he evaluated his teams.
My Grandpa also loved to go to the casino and through my 20's and 30's I would often pick him up and take him to Reno or Cache Creek. Sometimes we would just head over to Golden Gate Fields and spend a day watching the ponies run. In December we took an overnight trip up to Reno and he had so much fun, he loved to play those machines and shoot some craps every now and then. As we were walking through Circus Circus, he said, what do you think about them A's this year. I said, I don't know I think we are about a year away from being serious. He looked up at the futures board and saw that the A's were 125 to 1 to win the World Series and 60 to 1 to win the AL Pennant. He said, well I think that is worth $20 and he placed $20 on each wager.
Why, you say, do I write about this? Well my Grandpa passed away yesterday at Kaiser in Hayward, at the age of 90. My Grandpa worked his entire life, he was still working a small job at a local carwash up until January of this year when he became ill. My Grandpa was someone that I really admired and looked up to. My Grandpa is the reason that I am a huge fan of the Oakland Athletics and a huge part of who I am today. I want to thank him for turning me into an A's Fan and for all of the great times that we had together, I will miss him tremendously. I would love to be heading up to Reno in November to cash those tickets my Grandpa bought last year! Go A's!!
This is My Grandpa, taken about two weeks ago. Some of you may know him or recognize him from the many years that he worked at the Coliseum.
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Well done
This is a part of baseball that is truly special, the part that brings the generations together. Thanks for writing this.
Hey Al, just go away, baby.
I'm sorry for your loss.
It sounds like you have some great memories of him.
don't grow up too fast / and don't embrace the past / this life's too good to last
Thanks for sharing you and your Grandpa's story.
I think we can all relate to baseball, family and the bonds that form within and because of them.
"The only way I'm going to get a Gold Glove is with a can of spray paint." - Reggie Jackson
Here's to the Good Times ...
Sorry for the loss of your grandfather. It’s wonderful that you have so many warm memories together.
My grandfather is also the reason I’m a diehard A’s fan.
I grew up in the Bronx, as did my grandfather. But he rooted for the Athletics in Philly, Kansas City and Oakland.
He was born in this country, but his parents were born in Europe. He wanted to be a real American and a baseball fan. In 1929, he rooted for the underdog Athletics against the Cubs and once they won, he was hooked for life. What’s more American than to root for the underdog who overcomes great odds and wins? (He was also a socialist.)
My dad grew up in the Bronx, rooting for the KC A’s when the Yankees literally won the pennant every year. He got beat up a lot. But he passed a passion for the A’s on to me.
My Grandpa was a good man, but I always found it easiest to talk to him about the Athletics. It was an easy entre into the rest of our conversations and our relationship. He died a few years ago.
My son was born last year, in San Francisco. My wife said we’ll have to explain that we’re A’s fans for much stronger reasons than geography.
For professional reasons, we moved back to New York in July. Back here, people keep telling us we should free the little guy of the curse of being an A’s fan. I tell them we can’t; it’s heredity. Plus, I would never want to disrespect my grandpa like that.
Just awesome WAC.
Your Grandpa sounds like he was just a great guy and I’m glad you and he shared some hobbies. I’m sorry you lost your running partner.
He sounds like a he lived a full life. Thanks for celebrating it with us.
… and therein lies the tension between discouraging free rodent upgrades and relying on random walkup business. LB, you should tarp your kitchen. And move to San Jose. -mb
Makes me miss my grandpa too
Born near Chernobyl before Chernobyl, Ukraine, grandpa came over as a kid around 1910 or so and in between living in NY and LA he spent a couple years near San Antonio, TX (which as a Jew wasn’t always easy in those days, but i digress.)
Anyway, while in San Antonio he attended a barnstorming “spring training-ish” tour of major leaguers, including Babe Ruth, who’s hand he shook.
Grandpa would tell me how they used to bet a nickel on outcomes of ABs and the such, and i can just imagine the baggy uni’s as i write this.
Anyway, years later before his death at 94, my brother and i took him to an A’s game in the “they’re young, but they can play” slogan year (when was that again?) After getting a foul ball (i tell myself and defend with a passion) due to the luck grandpa gave me that day, on the way out (after a loss,) he looks up at the banners and says “they’re young.”
The man was a communist, then socialist, and finally humanist, and he lived a full life of early on young labor union organizer followed by catching the economic post WWll boom as an electrician. Progressive, activist youth (in and out of jail for labor union organizing, shot at by cops, etc) making the world better for working people, then fairly well off older life….the man had stories and experiences that we just don’t see much anymore and i miss him dearly.
Thanks OP for this great trip down memory lane and for sharing your very cool grandpa with us. My sympathies for your loss, but he’ll always be with you.
Deswho?
by supersugarCrisp on Feb 14, 2010 5:33 PM PST reply actions 1 recs
98 I think
Maybe 99. In 99 they could play. In 98 not quite yet. Either way, it was towards the end of my high school years.
Jeremy was safe. He jumped over the tag.
Thanks mrrickyg
That sounds right to me.
Let’s hope that is where we’re at without knowing it right now. One to two years away from the beginning of a nice run. That is the plan and if it comes to be, Beane will really have proved himself, even moreso.
Deswho?
by supersugarCrisp on Feb 15, 2010 2:45 PM PST up reply actions
Soooooo sorry to hear your news....but wonderful to read the story of the bond of baseball shared by you & your Grandpa.
Each of us probably has a similar tale of the person that taught us to love baseball. These memories and what he shared with you over the years will keep his love alive in your heart. May he rest in peace.
this made me cry
but ultimately feel good that you got to share so much quality time with such a great guy… beautiful story, thanks wacchamps.
Hey, I just bought the team from Lew Wolff... who wants to play third?
by emperor nobody on Feb 14, 2010 7:30 PM PST reply actions 1 recs
I do remember him
He always had a great comment for my kids coming through the gate.
Very sorry for your loss.
by Lafayette Scotsman on Feb 14, 2010 9:56 PM PST via mobile reply actions
oh yeah!
He was on the gate! I DO remember him now!
… and therein lies the tension between discouraging free rodent upgrades and relying on random walkup business. LB, you should tarp your kitchen. And move to San Jose. -mb
by Leopold Bloom on Feb 14, 2010 11:19 PM PST up reply actions
He looks very, very familiar
Thanks for sharing, WACC
by Colorado Fan on Feb 18, 2010 7:45 AM PST up reply actions
Very nice post
In the last few years of my Grandpa’s Alzheimer’s embattled life, one of the few things we could still do was go to the A’s game. Coming full circle from my youth, it was me leading him to his seats and putting the ketchup and mustard on his hot dogs like he used to do for me as a young child. Great (and later sad but worth it) memories!
Jeremy was safe. He jumped over the tag.
by mrrickyg on Feb 14, 2010 10:33 PM PST reply actions 1 recs
Great story
Thanks so much for sharing. I wish I had a similar story. I loved my Grandpa too, but we didn’t have the baseball connection you described. Still, he was very special to me and lives on in my heart. I’m sorry for your loss, and happy that you had lots of great years sharing an experience that will live on.
Go A’s
Haleakalu
I don't remember people too well but I wouldn't be surprised if I passed through one of his turnstiles
Pretty much gonna echo what the others have already said and add that my grandmother liked watching the A’s too and we’d talk about the team sometimes or I’d explain something to her that was going on. She’d played softball back in school and would sometimes tell me that she took a ball off one of her fingers one time and it never fully healed the right way so there was always a little stiffness or something in it that the others didn’t have. Either way, there was a connection there that we could talk about so I know exactly what that’s like, and there are times I miss it in addition to everything else about her.
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What a beautiful story.
Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into your grandfather’s wonderful life.
I'm here to talk about the past.
Thank you to everyone on here who has commented on my story and for sharing your stories!!
There is no A in OFFENSE!!
Nice Tribute
Sorry for your loss, but happy that you have great memories. Made me think of my Grandpa. He introduced me to baseball, and was a great baseball player himself in the early 1900’s. Thanks for making me think of him.
Stomp,em, stomp the piss out of em.Then pound the budweiser after the game. Joe Schultz Seattle Piolts Mgr 1969
Thank you for the awesome story...
…I’m so sorry about the loss of your awesome grandfather. I’m glad that you are carrying on the A’s traditions. :-)
"Bobby Crosby at third is a bit of an adventure. And not like, here’s some hidden treasure, what fun. More like, gah! poison ants!" --alea iacta est
Well written, wacchampions
Great tribute, and it’s great that your grandfather lived into his nineties, PLUS>>>>> he bought those bets on the pennant and WS. That is a great finish, and a future flourish.
Awaiting the start of the 2010 season!
by One won lost won on Feb 15, 2010 5:42 PM PST reply actions
What a great post wacchampions
to me the greatest part of sports is the connection it gives you to your family and friends and even to a place.
We need all the good, hardworking Raider and A’s fans we can get so I know your Grandpa will be missed. Thanks for sharing this with us wacchampions.
So sweet, wac!
I wish I could say I remember seeing him. What a great face and smile. My condolences.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us.
I’m sorry for your loss— what a great story!
"I hope he arouses the fire that's dormant in the innermost recesses of my soul." - Ichiro on Matsuzaka
by ConditionOakland on Feb 17, 2010 5:35 AM PST reply actions
goddammit.
I knew as soon as I started reading this that I was going to be trouble, and sure enough, I couldn’t read the last paragraph from the tears in my eyes.
I am sorry for your loss. I can only hope that I am blessed with a relationship like this with my son and future grandkids.
Beautiful life story.
I’m sorry for your loss, but a lovely celebration of his life in your words.
"No matter what I talk about, I always get back to baseball." -- Connie Mack
Again, I want to thank everyone for the support and for enjoying my story!
There is no A in OFFENSE!!
Beautiful
I was hoping the story wasn’t going to end like that but it was a pretty good Eulogy, of sorts.
I'll have a sandwich and a draft(sic). - Bill King (RIP)
Sounds like a life well lived....
I loved my grandfather dearly, though we didn’t have a baseball connection. We talked a lot of politics and about his experiences growing up in the early 1900’s. He was a West Virginia coal miner and a saint of a man. I had the good fortune to drive him back to a family reunion in WV from California right before I left for the military. That trip more than matched my years circling the globe in the Navy. He really gave me a history lesson…..lol. I learned where all the best whore houses were in several counties. Of course I was 70 years to late to see if they were all that I was told they were. He never met my own son, who now carries part of his name. He’s been gone many years now, but I still miss him everyday.
"You may glory in a team triumphant, but you fall in love with a team in defeat."--The Boys of Summer

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