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Wedding... A day at the park... 8/3108 the A's lost, but I won

a day at the park Good Morning!... We have been invited here today to share with Mike and Erin, in a very important moment in their lives. Today they will become husband and wife, before all of you, under the eyes of God and in the holy church of baseball. Paul Richards, (A famous Orioles manager) once said… Baseball is made up of very few… big and dramatic moments, but rather it's a beautifully put together pattern of countless little subtleties that finally add up to the big moment, and you have to be well-versed in the game to truly appreciate them. The greatest things in life are often the little things and little moments that are truly the most memorable. In order to appreciate these moments, one must be fully present in their lives and the world around then to bear witness to all the events, small and large. Today is one of those special moments. Bob Feller (Pitcher for the Cleveland Indians, 1936) said "Every day is a new opportunity. You can build on yesterday's success and put its failures behind you and start over again. That's the way life is, with a new game every day, and that's the way baseball is." In marriage and life, you will face many challenges. What matters most, with each success or failure, it is an opportunity to grow and grow together as a team. Each day is a new opportunity to celebrate your love for each other and your commitment to this relationship. Life is often like baseball. Sometimes we get a hit and sometimes we strike out. And everyone once and a while, we do something extraordinary, like hitting a home run or catch the pop fly in right field to win the game. Mike and Erin are very fortunate because this is one of those extraordinary moments in life. Mike and Erin have been in the periphery of each other's lives for more than 12 years. 2 1/2 years ago, in a chance meeting at an old familiar hangout, they ran into each other and danced for hours and then ..:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" />Erin disappeared into the night. It would be six months al later before they ran into each other again. They have been inseparable ever since. Willie Mays ( the famous baseball player, just incase you were wondering who he was) once said… 'In order to excel, you must be completely dedicated to your chosen sport. You must also be prepared to work hard and be willing to accept criticism. Without 100 percent dedication, you won't be able to do this.' Today is about marriage, teamwork, dedication and commitment. Marriage and baseball have a lot more in common than one might think. This marriage will be a team of loving people and although there won't be any million dollar contracts…. Teamwork is essential to both marriage and baseball. There is a lot of on field chatter between the players to make sure the ball gets caught and the play is made. Like baseball, marriage needs to have constant communication. Each day, the players need to show up, work hard and be there for each other no matter whether they win or lose. Marriage requires the same level of commitment and dedication each and everyday. Marriage is not to be taken lightly, but thoughtfully and seriously, with deep consideration for its obligations and responsibilities. (Ask us to repeat after you) Do you Erin, take Mike, to be your lawfully wedded husband and teammate. To love and cherish, in sickness and in health, for rich or for poorer, no matter whether you win or lose? I say yes… Do you Mike, take Erin, to be your lawfully wedded wife and teammate. To love and cherish, in sickness and in health, for rich or for poorer, no matter whether you win or lose? Mike says yes…. EXCHANGE OF RINGS OR GIFTS (Ask Ashley for the rings) (Ask us to place and hold the ring on the ring finger and repeat these words…) Mike repeat after me… Erin repeat after me… "I give you this ring as a promise to show up, play hard , and be the best teammate of your life forever more." DECLARATION OF MARRIAGE By the power vested in me by the State of California, I now pronounce you husband and wife You may now kiss your wife. We KISS - Yucky! INTRODUCTION OF NEWLYWEDS May I present – Team O'Neal The BBQ area is upstairs and to the left. Please join us for lunch. Game starts at 1:05 2938767819_0082da8a17_medium

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I'm a very lucky boy... I love Oakland A's baseball and she likes sunshine, nachos, and beer... it works for us...

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thataboy mike

that was awesome.

-gatey

"If you hit .440 with 20 bombs, you don't have to do s---. You don't have to bring a glove to practice, just hit and leave whenever you want. You can bring a 40 and smoke a cigarette and call me from the parking lot asking me what time the game is, and I'll tell you. You can even say 'F--- you, Steve!' Actually, don't say that, that wouldn't be very nice." -Steve Friend, Head Coach, Chabot College Gladiators Baseball

by flipgatey3 on Nov 15, 2008 11:37 AM PST reply actions   0 recs

Wonderful!

Love the vows. Now I’ve found three occasions where I’m cool with pink A’s gear: young children, breast cancer awareness day, and now happy, beautiful brides.

Thanks for sharing.

"Don't be an ass!" --Bill King

by batgirl on Nov 15, 2008 11:54 AM PST reply actions   0 recs

I just go with the notion that pink A's gear

is OK as long as the wearer is an attractive female.

Exceptions made for breast cancer though.

""Bobby Crosby’s Release" - Sounds like a good title to Mr. Crosby’s first work in his next career now that we know he can’t play baseball." - Joey C.

by Blicks on Nov 15, 2008 5:23 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Typical rookie....

he thinks he “won” something. You should have just asked stomper to hit you over the head with a bat several thousand times. Because that’s exactly what’s going to happen to you over the next 40 years or so. At least Stomper would have gotten it over with in short order…

Congrats! 21 “blessed” years and counting….looking forward to the death part now.

Just kidding! You guys look like a wonderful couple!

"You may glory in a team triumphant, but you fall in love with a team in defeat."--The Boys of Summer

by alox on Nov 15, 2008 12:13 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

LOL

I just celebrated my one year anniversary too.

Bob Geren, on 8/2/07, on the success of Alan Embree as new interim closer: "What can I say,... he's been our Steady Tremendous Bullpen Man"

by popcornjames on Nov 17, 2008 11:45 AM PST up reply actions   0 recs

TY for the terrific fanpost.

A Unique and totally cool wedding. I wish you both the best! GO team O’Neal!

by IM4Oakgal on Nov 15, 2008 3:26 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

i was at this game and i remember thinking

that guy is living the dream. congrats, and great choice on wedding location

by travdog6 on Nov 15, 2008 4:10 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

Arizona Fall League stats for A's

Josh Donaldson: .337/.360/.518/.878
Sean Doolittle: .294 /.341/.596/.938
Adrian Cardenas: .283/.387/.340/.727

Andrew Bailey: 0.75 ERA, 12.0 IP, 1.25 WHIP
Jeff Gray: 1.64 ERA, 11.0 IP, 1.09 WHIP
Andrew Carignan: 1.80 ERA, 10.0 IP, 1.10 WHIP
Jared Lansford: 5.00 ERA, 9.0 IP, 1.44 WHIP

facepalm.jpg

by Zonis on Nov 15, 2008 4:14 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

That's an incredibly weird way to congratulate newlyweds, Zonis...

Ray: "How fun is it to be up here playing in the Big Leagues?"
Gio: "It's *SUPER* fun!!!"

by Poppy on Nov 15, 2008 4:22 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

LOL

best. toast. ever.

"Don't be an ass!" --Bill King

by batgirl on Nov 15, 2008 5:29 PM PST up reply actions   1 recs

I think it was Toby Harrah who said it best:

“Baseball statistics are like a girl in a bikini. They show a lot, but not everything.”

I'm here to talk about the past.

by 67MARQUEZ on Nov 15, 2008 8:11 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

 “I give you this ring as a promise to show up, play hard , and be the best teammate of your life forever more.”

That’s awesome.

Ray: "How fun is it to be up here playing in the Big Leagues?"
Gio: "It's *SUPER* fun!!!"

by Poppy on Nov 15, 2008 4:21 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

I told myself I wouldn't cry :)

Thanks for posting. Remember, in the words of Frederick B. Wilcox:

“Progress always involves risks. You can’t steal second base and keep your foot on first.”

I'm here to talk about the past.

by 67MARQUEZ on Nov 15, 2008 8:17 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

you can if

both your legs are 45 feet long and you can do the splits.

In search of a new signature. Say something funny and you may see your comment here!

by DMOAS on Nov 16, 2008 7:24 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

I met a girl like that.

I'm here to talk about the past.

by 67MARQUEZ on Nov 17, 2008 6:15 AM PST up reply actions   0 recs

NIce...

I like that, 67Marquez… no risk no rewards

6+4+3=2

by doublezero on Nov 16, 2008 8:57 AM PST reply actions   0 recs

congrats again mike o

glad i could be a part of it. best wishes to you and erin.

"If you hit .440 with 20 bombs, you don't have to do s---. You don't have to bring a glove to practice, just hit and leave whenever you want. You can bring a 40 and smoke a cigarette and call me from the parking lot asking me what time the game is, and I'll tell you. You can even say 'F--- you, Steve!' Actually, don't say that, that wouldn't be very nice." -Steve Friend, Head Coach, Chabot College Gladiators Baseball

by flipgatey3 on Nov 16, 2008 2:34 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

Wow. that is awesome.

I remember seeing that on SportsCenter!!!!!
Congrats!! :)

But seriously. Best. Vows. EVER.

Awww… Unicorn's optimistic. And a cheeseball. That’s cute. ~Whiteshoes40

by #14fan on Nov 16, 2008 10:45 AM PST reply actions   0 recs

Great to see a baseball game take back seat to something truly important

Thanks for sharing.

"However, at Elias, I think they keep track of the amount of sunflower seeds spit in a dugout each night." - Brad Ziegler, 8/7/08

by doctorK on Nov 16, 2008 8:43 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

VOWS

yeah a few people requested copies of the vows (which I had NOTHING to do with) my Wife and the Ref put them together… OH and Wife wanted me to add that she likes baseball too… not just sunshine, nachos and beer…

6+4+3=2

by doublezero on Nov 17, 2008 6:39 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

erin would do that

but for real, those vows were awesome.

"If you hit .440 with 20 bombs, you don't have to do s---. You don't have to bring a glove to practice, just hit and leave whenever you want. You can bring a 40 and smoke a cigarette and call me from the parking lot asking me what time the game is, and I'll tell you. You can even say 'F--- you, Steve!' Actually, don't say that, that wouldn't be very nice." -Steve Friend, Head Coach, Chabot College Gladiators Baseball

by flipgatey3 on Nov 17, 2008 9:42 PM PST up reply actions   0 recs

doublezero and Wife

It was a great day and a great wedding; perfectly suited to the great couple. I was one of the people who asked for the text of the vows. I’m so glad you thought to post them here! Perfect! Just reading the vows is impressive enough, but witnessing it in person was lumpy-throaty.

I did finally eat my Team O’Neal Cracker Jack (during the WS). I put the box among the bobbleheads etc., in my in-home A’s shrine.

I’d love to see the SC or BBTN coverage; I’d recorded BBTN that night but somehow didn’t catch it.

Your Wife freakin ROCKS (and I still think she should ditch your game this weekend and go drinking with us).

"optimism 1 pessimism 0" ~Dirk

by 149 on Nov 18, 2008 7:53 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

Huh...

Got married on the same day – alas, my wife and her family would’ve shat a brick if I even suggested something like this. Not that I’m complaining too loudly, my wedding was great as it was… but this looks pretty damn cool.

Congrats!

by RickeySteals on Nov 19, 2008 3:57 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

Thanks 149

She does rock… alas the wife is workiing this weekend and won’t be out at softball with me or available to go drinking with ya either…

And Re: Huh…
Am I lucky or what getting married at the game wasn’t even MY idea.. it was HERS…

6+4+3=2

by doublezero on Nov 19, 2008 7:45 PM PST reply actions   0 recs

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