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LurkerD's-fight-diary-continued open thread, brought to you by Jerry Springer

Great thread by LurkerD with 170+ comments yesterday, from lurkerD's statement--how is it that what Kendall did so courageous or commendable?--to baseballgirl's rejoinder--yeah but it sure was fun to watch a fight for a change!  (Note: paraphrasing very badly).  I remember my high-school friends and I always yearning to go to a game that featured a bench-clearing brawl, so for that part of my inner fan, today was certainly a big success.  

On the other hand, a closer examination of our guy's actions--which lurkerD's post requires us to make--tells us pretty clearly that they were far from heroic.  Kendall either a) acted in the throws of a tempermental passion and needs anger management counselling (charging the mound in response to an insult?  But then confer Apricot's post on rituals in baseball--much more acceptable than charging, say, your boss in real life); or b) acted according to a plan, craftily (read: Pyrzynski-ishly) getting the Angels' best starting pitcher ejected from the game at minimal cost to us (Kendall suspension--who cares?  Err, I mean, now who will "handle" our pitching staff?).  

Should we all now feel bad for our initial cheers?  Well, as PosterNutBag eloquently put it, "Not a single person on this, or any other blog, has any right to look down on anyone for any of this."  No big deal, people, just a little scrum.  Sure, we all got excited, surprise, surprise--as McFood pointed out, humans have been getting excited about violence for oh, about the whole history of mankind.  

Use this thread to continue talking about the brawl yesterday, including update w.r.t. any penalty handed down.  And while doing so:  be good to yourselves ... and each other.  

Poll
Jason Kendall is
a guy who plays with a lot of passion--which is just what the A's need to finally win a playoff series.
74 votes
in need of anger-management counselling.
1 votes
the wallpaper on Ray Fosse's laptop, but we already knew that, and what does that have to do with firing Macha now?
30 votes
A.J. Pyrzynski in green-and-gold clothing
4 votes
a guy who plays with a lot of cunning--which is just what the A's need to win a playoff series.
10 votes

119 votes | Poll has closed

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It's all a gray area to me
It's hard for me to see the situation in black and white. When I heard the announcers say Jason charged the mound, I was shocked. Even though I already knew about his previous "behaviors", I thought after a relatively calm last year he had finally mellowed out. I don't think it was a coincedence that most of his mound charges came after his almost career ending injury back in 1999.

I can see how the situation can be viewed as positive. It creates a sense of togetherness, because I don't think there was a single player there who wouldn't go out to help defend a teammate, no matter who was in the wrong. I've read tons of quotes from other A's players saying that Lackey has previously run his mouth. With any intense rivalry, minor things get escalated, and the end result will more or less be ugly. The weird thing about it, the uglier it is, the more interest it draws.

Kendall is my favorite player, and I'm not gonna lie. Watching a man I think is hot going out and kicking another guy's ass is completely sexy to me. If it had been two other players that I didn't care about, I would have found the whole thing juvenile and stupid. Um, I think there's a point somewhere around here....

[final thought]So brawls may be good for the fans and players to retain their interest, but the act and the consequences will just come back to bite everyone in the ass.[/final thought]

"If you ever get tired, you just look at Kendall."- Bobby Crosby

by KendallGurl18 on May 3, 2006 12:23 AM PDT reply actions  

Final Thought!
That's what it's called!  I'd forgotten what Springer called that end-of-segment wrap-up.  

by rubin sierra on May 3, 2006 2:11 AM PDT up reply actions  

My take...
Hitting is such a mindgame, while it is a shame to think this stuff might convince yuong ones that violence is okay, these things are an important part of the game.

In Leonard Koppet's 'The Thinking Fans Guide To Baseball,' he discusses how, at the root of hitting is the batters fear of getting hit.  Even if this is a subconscious fear, the body reacts adversely to a ball travelling nearly a hundred miles an hour so close to it.  Koppet goes into detail on how in an at bat when the pitcher moves his pitches in and outside he keeps the batter off-balance by using this natural reflex against him.  Each pitch is an effort for the pitcher and batter to try and take more of the plate for himself.

So, when Lackey says something like "stick that out there again," while seeming like a small insult, could be taken as "I'm gonna get you with the next one."  This leaves, in the batters mind(even if just in the back), the thought that the next pitch is coming right at him.  Maybe it is maybe, it isn't.  Maybe he throws it to the outside corner and Kendall isn't able to react in time.  The point is Lackey now has the advantage.  In order to take that advantage away from Lackey, and future pitcher's from trying something similar, one must act.

What Kendall did is part of the natural battle between a pitcher and a hitter, just as a pitcher beaning someone sometimes is.

And this doesn't even go into how relaxed the A's have been the last couple years.  Perhaps Kendall saw how easy going everyone was and decided he'd light a fire under their asses.

All in all, I think we should all just be happy we made it through the fight and, miraculously, Crosby didn't end up on the DL.

by SuperBean on May 3, 2006 1:19 AM PDT reply actions  

violence
i posted things similar to this in the past thread (and in other places - since this brawl has been a major topic of concern), but i think it needs to be said again.  i don't think that there's anything wrong with fighting.  there's conditions to this of course, and those are that it must be fair and honest.  in this case (lackey v. Kendall) we have a fight started between two guys, one who was asking for it, and one who was willing to give it.  they came at each other with no cheap shots, and there's not much more to it than that.  why do u have a problem with a good clean fight when it's called for?
"Apparently there's a rule that you have to be old enough to drive yourself to the induction ceremony. So obviously that's not gonna work."

by F171615 on May 3, 2006 1:40 AM PDT reply actions  

one who was asking for it
To say Lackey was asking for a fight seems a bit of a stretch.  Given that Lackey clearly wasn't buzzing Jason, Kendall's charge to the mound was clearly in response to Lackey's insult, and I've never seen that before, a player charging the mound in response to trash-talk.

But on the other hand, supporting your argument--Lackey said he had no problem with Kendall having charged the mound.  No one's reporting exactly what was said; maybe it was so below-the-belt that Lackey really WAS asking for it.  

by rubin sierra on May 3, 2006 2:10 AM PDT up reply actions  

To the contrary...
I would say Lackey was asking for it. So did the umpire...

http://www.latimes.com/sports/baseball/mlb/angels/la-sp-angels3may03,1,3770365.story?coll=la-headlin es-sports-mlb-angels

"The whole reason Kendall went after him -- which was completely wrong, and of course he's going to be ejected -- is because Lackey yelled at him aggressively, very aggressively. He took a couple steps beyond where he usually ends up where he pitches, basically challenging him"
Head Umpire - Dale Scott

Watching the replay on the team's official site - it is very clear that Lackey takes 3 or 4 steps towards the box. Kendall isn't even looking at him - and only charges in response to Lackey's words (which were obviously loud if the Ump also heard them.)

Violence is wrong. In the context of a sporting game things can get just a little blurred. Some sports are purely based on fighting, and others essentially incorpoarte it (Go Sharks!)

The debacle at the Pacers-Pistons game last year = disgraceful.

The debacle at the big A yesterday = Part of baseball.

I hate to do it but Kruk had a valid point on BBTN, (tune out if you see fit!) Especially in the A.L. the pitcher believes they can get away with pitching inside because they won't be beaned in retaliation. Lackey gestured and tried to get an edge in the at bat, by intimidating Kendall. (I agree w/ SuperBean -excellent post) Apparently Lackey has mouthed off several times prior to yesterday...and Kendall snapped. It's not a good example for the kids watching, but Kendall was playing team baseball.

"ET TU, DAMON?" 4/4

by FireballerHARDEN on May 3, 2006 2:32 AM PDT up reply actions  

That's where Lackey loses my sympathy
It's one thing to say something, especially if it's not too over the top.  And I certainly don't think a remark about Kendall's penchant for "taking one for the team" in a bases-loaded situation crosses the line, if that's all he said.

What struck me in watching the replay (once) was Lackey making a spectacle of himself.  It was obvious he was yelling, and then he takes a couple of steps to make it ever more obvious.  He was showing Kendall up.

I would have preferred that Kendall just yell back instead of charge the mound.  But in Kendall's mind, that wasn't enough of a response.  I don't entirely blame him, at least when I look at it from his perspective.

The beauty of these baseball fights is that no one ever gets hurt in them.  And then everyone just mills around.  

by bear88 on May 3, 2006 10:51 AM PDT up reply actions  

''The beauty...
of these baseball fights is that no one ever gets hurt in them.  And then everyone just mills around."

Yeah.  That's why baseball brawls mostly just make me laugh.  They're so absurd.  I mean, if a young athletic man pushed an overweight old guy in real life, it would be pretty offensive.  But Pedro Martinez shoving Don Zimmer bordered on the ridiculous.  Not saying it was okay, but it was hard to take it seriously in the context of a baseball brawl.

by goldfish on May 3, 2006 11:49 AM PDT up reply actions  

Violence is okay sometimes!
It't not like Kendall stabbed him with an oak-town special switchblade!
Two-thirds of the earth is covered by water, the other third is covered by Kotsay.

by carp on May 3, 2006 5:51 AM PDT up reply actions  

anyone who has a problem with the kendall thing
is a sissy and should consider following ice dancing instead of baseball.  seriously.  

lackey didn't have a problem with it, and even the umpire understood.  maybe they're on to something.

anyone who makes comparisons to the ron artest incident or the delmon young incident is just being ridiculous and should probably just be ignored by all reasonable baseball fans.

of course kendall should be suspended, as should lackey for starting it.  but this is a legitimate part of the game, just because two things are both suspendable offenses (for example, charging the mound, throwing a bat at an umpire) doesn't mean they're comparable in any other way.

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 2:46 AM PDT reply actions  

actually...
I'm partial to rhythmic gymnastics
I miss Bill King :(

by gojohn10 on May 3, 2006 3:10 AM PDT up reply actions  

I was always kinda partial to Roy Rogers
Yippee-io-ki-ay mf'er!

One of my favorite lines from Die Hard.

"If you're surprised by getting the job done, that means you didn't expect it out of yourself." -Huston Street

by ohtobe21likehuston on May 3, 2006 3:38 PM PDT up reply actions  

Hell yeah X!
Two-thirds of the earth is covered by water, the other third is covered by Kotsay.

by carp on May 3, 2006 5:51 AM PDT up reply actions  

ice dancing
I don't know maaan.....
Those ice dancing fights can be pretty mean.
"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 3, 2006 6:54 AM PDT up reply actions  

Disney's "Scrums On Ice"!
I just gave birth to twins!!! JayPay and Joe K. are the fathers!!!! ~~ McFood

by Poppy on May 3, 2006 7:01 AM PDT up reply actions  

Well
Thanks for making that so clear.
Nothing says fun like Premium Meat!

by lurkerD on May 3, 2006 9:07 AM PDT up reply actions  

i'm here to help
A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 11:22 AM PDT up reply actions  

help?
looks to me like you're here to insult.
Nothing says fun like Premium Meat!

by lurkerD on May 3, 2006 12:41 PM PDT up reply actions  

OK, xbx, may I consider that ...
... an invitation by you for me to physically assault you?
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 10:37 AM PDT up reply actions  

absolutely
if we were playing baseball against each other, and i publicly shouted insults at you in a somewhat threatening manner in the middle of a game, i'd probably consider you a pathetic coward if you didn't do something about it.  

an argument could be made that the proper thing to do would be to throw at me (the pitcher) if possible or at the best player on my team (vlad), but kicking my ass would be an acceptable option as well.  

or did you mean in real life, outside of baseball?  surely you're not delusional enough to confuse the rules (written and unwritten) of baseball with those of the outside world...

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 11:22 AM PDT up reply actions  

Live by the code, duck by the code
If your comparison was MLB players to office workers, you might have a point.  But the code for male sports fans at the game is much like that for players--you call me a sissy (or likely more inflammatory invective), I lash back with fists.  Doesn't make it right, of course.  But that is the reality on the ground, as a sampling of folks in the smoking section in the 7th inning would surely prove, as OPD scurried over from the Westside Club to enforce their code.

If I responded in kind, however, with just words, the chances of resolving things with manhood intact and without a visit to the holding tank are greatly enhanced.

Defeat d'Anaheim!

by FreeSeatUpgrade on May 3, 2006 11:31 AM PDT up reply actions  

so why is it that
if kendall lashed back with fists against lackey, he wouldn't end up with an arrest record, but if one male sports fan did so to another, they would end up with an arrest record?  

again, it's because the written and unwritten rules of baseball are different from those in the real world.  

i don't think that's dependent on whether one works in an office or not.  i don't know if the "punching each other is normal behavior" defense has ever been used by a sports fan in a criminal trial, but if it has i'm sure it failed.  

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 12:32 PM PDT up reply actions  

OK, so I now have four choices
  1. Ignore you (which, obviously, I'm not doing)
  2. Respond to you in kind with insults
  3. Actually physically assault you in reposnde to your insults, baiting, and goading (which I'm not doing because [a] I'm not a hypocrite and [b] I don't especially need the arrest record or your hospital bill)
  4. Report you to the CGV
  5. Engage in dialogue to figure out why you're so hostile on this issue
What's your preference?
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 11:48 AM PDT up reply actions  

{buys popcorn}
I just gave birth to twins!!! JayPay and Joe K. are the fathers!!!! ~~ McFood

by Poppy on May 3, 2006 11:54 AM PDT up reply actions  

{takes shot of tequila}
{flicks jujubes at screen}
I just gave birth to twins!!! JayPay and Joe K. are the fathers!!!! ~~ McFood

by Poppy on May 3, 2006 12:59 PM PDT up reply actions  

do jujubes dissolve in tequila?
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:20 PM PDT up reply actions  

I don't think jujubes even dissolve in stomach
I just gave birth to twins!!! JayPay and Joe K. are the fathers!!!! ~~ McFood

by Poppy on May 3, 2006 1:28 PM PDT up reply actions  

not even marinated in plug terbacky?
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:33 PM PDT up reply actions  

nobody ever expects the Simian Inquisition!
Our four main options are ... our five main options are ...
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 11:59 AM PDT up reply actions  

{throws comfy chair}
I just gave birth to twins!!! JayPay and Joe K. are the fathers!!!! ~~ McFood

by Poppy on May 3, 2006 12:01 PM PDT up reply actions  

"Cardinal Fang"
... would be a really great username. Maybe more apt at a St Louis site, but still ...
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 12:16 PM PDT up reply actions  

what a joke dude
what would this CGV report say?  

i have no idea how you (or anyone else) would behave in a hypothetical situation i just made up where 1) myself and the other individual were both baseball players and 2) i insulted the other person during a game.
is it a CGV if my personal opinion is that i consider a certain action in that hypothetical situation to be cowardly?

i also don't know that you, or anyone else, confuses the rules of baseball with those that govern people out in the real world.  but if anyone does in fact confuse the two, is thinking that is delusional a violation of the community guidelines?

what if i say
-"i think people who cross the street while hopping on one leg are idiots."  
-"i think anyone who wants to take a vacation on the sun is a moron."
-"i think if someone confused the laws of the real world and those on the show Star Trek, that would be delusional."

are those statements CGVs?

i don't file CGV's against people, but if i did, should i file a CGV based on you stating on AN that you are contemplating physical assault against me, and apparently only decided not to take such an action because it might appear to be inconsistent behavior on your part based on some earlier statements you may have made, and because you fear being arrested or having to pay for my hospital bills?

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 12:53 PM PDT up reply actions  

bring it on
Regarding your last question: sure, yes. I think my statement in the respect you outline was CGV-worthy. As were a couple of my statements yesterday to, in particular, HollywoodOz and ohtobe21likehuston. All of those -- including mine to you -- I regret and hereby apologize for -- but accept a strike or two for if so charged. And if you do choose to report me and that constitutes my third, I'll accept that as well. C'est la vie.

You wrote, "anyone who has a problem with the kendall thing [...] is a sissy." Please explain precisely how that doesn't constitute an insult, to me and to numerous other AN'ers. (You can use small words if that makes it easier for you. [Strike four!])

You also wrote, "anyone who makes comparisons to the ron artest incident or the delmon young incident is just being ridiculous": not that the argument itself is ridiculous, or that you disagree with it, but that the individuals were being ridiculous. Borderline, by itself not constitutive, but in context, following on the "sissies" comment, potentially culpable.

You followed up with "if we were playing baseball against each other, and i publicly shouted insults at you in a somewhat threatening manner in the middle of a game, i'd probably consider you a pathetic coward if you didn't do something about it." While you were indeed careful to follow that in turn with an implicit caution about not extrapolating that to a real-world situation, I think that the context is quite clear: that you in fact had just "shouted insults" at me and others, and that the implication is indeed that we will be considered "pathetic coward[s]" if we don't respond to you in a reciprocal or escalatory manner. That to me is a pretty clear example of precisely what was highlighted in the recent oaktoon kerfuffle, vis a vis goading and baiting.

I recognize that I've crossed the line a couple of times in the last 24 hours; why do you not see that you have as well?

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:19 PM PDT up reply actions  

<whips head to one side, nods>
<whips head to other side, nods>
<whips head back to center>
<strains neck>
<blames Macha>
Giants fans are fighting back. I'm now hearing "Let's Go Shopping!"- jeepers

by baseballgirl on May 3, 2006 1:23 PM PDT up reply actions  

darn, tootin', blame Macha!
You haven't been stretched out enough this season to acknowledge all three sides of a debate!
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:25 PM PDT up reply actions  

stretched out enough
I think that is what the <censoring> of BBG at ANIII is all about.
the home run that Eric Chavez did was tight. Sprots4Kids quote

by Satchmo22 on May 3, 2006 1:40 PM PDT up reply actions  

oh, you are DEFINITELY bANnEd!
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:56 PM PDT up reply actions  

oh MAN!!!!
And just think...you're totally going to miss it.

You know they have planes to Oakland, yeah? And the airport is right next to the stadium...:)

Giants fans are fighting back. I'm now hearing "Let's Go Shopping!"- jeepers

by baseballgirl on May 3, 2006 2:07 PM PDT up reply actions  

AN 4
I think we need blez to step it up next year and have them let us all bring sleeping bags so we can camp out in the outfield.
the home run that Eric Chavez did was tight. Sprots4Kids quote

by Satchmo22 on May 3, 2006 2:26 PM PDT up reply actions  

{checks Royals' record}
I just gave birth to twins!!! JayPay and Joe K. are the fathers!!!! ~~ McFood

by Poppy on May 3, 2006 1:30 PM PDT up reply actions  

it has already been brought
CGVs:
i already told you i wouldn't file a CGV.  if i think filing CGVs is yet another thing that is for sissies, does merely having that opinion constitute a CGV?  
i believe oaktoon and others (including myself) expressed similar sentiments in his CGV diary...

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"anyone who has a problem with the kendall thing":
it wasn't an insult towards you because i was not aware of your feelings on the matter when i expressed my personal opinion on it.

that's why i give the example of "i think people who cross the street while hopping on one leg are idiots."
if i make that statement, can you say "i cross the street while hopping on one leg, therefore you consider me to be an idiot, therefore that is a CGV"?
that seems a bit ridiculous to me.

what if i say "only a fool would want kendall to bat fourth in the order" and one of the 6 billion people on this planet actually happens to think kendall should bat fourth in the order, did i just commit a CGV against that person?

my comment was not in response to anything you or anyone else had written on the matter, i was merely stating my own opinion.
note that not only did i not respond to you, but you had not even posted in this diary at that time.

the only diary i have read on this kendall debate, even now, is this diary.
at the time i posted my comment (close to 3am), this was at the top of the diary list.
there were only a few comments in this diary, and, although this may come as a surprise, none of the comments were on the subject of monkeyball's opinion of the kendall incident.

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artest-kendall comparison:
that is yet another comment that wasn't in response to anyone actually comparing the kendall incident to the artest or young incidents.  
in fact, the only person who had mentioned it is "FireballerHARDEN" and only to state that he thought this was different, not to make a comparison.
his comment is the reason i brought it up, and obviously it wasn't to insult him as he agrees.

if no one actually compared it to the young and artest incidents, which individuals am i saying are ridiculous?  who is the CGV against?
if someone does think that, even though i am not aware of it, have i now committed a CGV?

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hypothetical:
surely anyone can see that i presented an imaginary hypothetical.  
i said it would be okay for you to assault me "IF" i was lackey ("best player on my team" = vlad) and you were kendall and we were playing baseball against each other.  
clearly we are not playing in a baseball game against each other right now, nor have we ever done so, nor do we have plans to do so.  clearly i am not lackey.  i'm assuming you're not kendall, if you were, you could probably file like 500 CGVs every day.  

my comment was that if i was lackey and kendall didn't charge the mound, i would consider him, as a fellow baseball player, to be a coward.  
it has nothing to do with

  1. whether i as someone who is not a baseball player but a baseball fan, would consider kendall to be a coward if he didn't charge the mound.
  2. whether i think you are a coward, as you are not a baseball player in that situation, and because i don't know what you have said you would do in such a situation.
this was followed by an explanation (using "small words" to quote you) of the difference between baseball and the real world, to try to drive home the point that baseball and the outside world are two separate things.  apparently that didn't work so well.

i disagree that the "implication" is what you state it was, i think that's all just in your head as it seems clear that you are looking for something to get upset about.

i had not just "shouted insults" at you or anyone else, i had just stated my opinion, and not directed at anyone.  i didn't know or particularly care what your personal opinions on the matter are.  perhaps you are overestimating the importance i place on your opinions, and of your opinions of my opinions.

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goading/baiting:
i started out by merely stating my opinion, not responding to anyone else or mentioning anyone else.
you directly responded to me with
"OK, xbx, may I consider that ...
... an invitation by you for me to physically assault you?"

that sure seems like goading/baiting to me.  
all i did in response was merely answer the question you directly asked me.

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your opinion:
as far as your opinions of the incident are concerned, i had not read a single comment from you on the matter.  perhaps you posted in the other diary ("why such enthusiasm").  
note that i haven't posted in there, that's because i came home at 2:30am and there were close to 200 comments.  
i still haven't read that diary, because i really don't' care enough about the subject to go through the 240 comments.
so if you think anything i said is in response to some opinion you expressed there, you're mistaken.
if you think i'm lying, ask one of the site administrators, perhaps they can check my account.
the fact is, the other diary has not even been opened by me and still has the [!] thing in front of it.

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 6:52 PM PDT up reply actions  

fair enough
I will certainly take you at your word that you neither read my other comments in the first diary or directed your specific comments at me. No snark or snideness whatsoever intended in this respect -- I've always respected and trusted you and your opinion. And I honestly do appreciate and respect your engaging in dialogue with me on this. If, as you imply, that doesn't matter much to you, well, that's fine. I just wanted to let you know.

Your assertion, then, speaks to most of the "context" I erroneously thought I saw, which settles that so far as I specifically am concerned.

You don't, however, substantively address your initial "sissies" comment (and I'll for the time being disregard your usage of it in the post above, since I really don't want to get in a pissing match). You don't explain at all how it doesn't constitute a blanket insult of numerous AN'ers -- even including those at whom you didn't intend to aim it. And if you don't understand why calling someone a name that is obviously intended to deride and diminish isn't an insult ... well, I don't know what to say.

In my opinion, by insulting people because of a difference of opinion, you were engaging in pretty much the same thing as John Lackey.

My response, I hope, has been to try and request that you not do that -- to me or anyone else. And, especially after reading your response, I understand that I haven't been as cool and collected as I could have been, and I also see that my responses have been in some ways hypocritical, given my condemnation of Kendall's response.

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 4, 2006 10:28 AM PDT up reply actions  

the initial comment
was sort of a joke (ice dancing), but also sort of serious, to the extent that most jokes are.  and because of that, i have no problem defending it.

i just think it's a bit of an overreaction.  if someone said people who think [opinion] are [derogatory term], i wouldn't be all that outraged on a personal level just based on the fact that i held that opinion.

of course, the difference may be that you were particularly offended because you actually are a sissy, regretting your behavior and trying to deescalate the situation and whatnot...

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 9, 2006 2:57 AM PDT up reply actions  

well, in that case ...
... since you're actively defending calling people names, I am going to report you.
(It's scandinavian) - salb918 @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 9, 2006 9:32 AM PDT up reply actions  

absolutely
i would defend anyone's right to give such an opinion in a joking manner as something that should be allowed if any "names" they use are not directed or in response to at any specific person or group of people.  

i would analogize it (for like the FIFTH time) to something like "if you think kendall should bat cleanup, you probably took the short bus to school."

in fact, i'm going to make that statement right now:
anyone who thinks kendall should bat cleanup probably took the short bus to school.

isn't that statement equally offensive and equally CGV-worthy in every way?  
i see absolutely no reason why it's not.
if my initial statement is a CGV, so is this one.

  1. both statements may use slightly insulting language, but they are only half serious.  
  2. both are valid opinions that one should be allowed to both hold and express on an a's blog.
  3. both are not directed at any specific person or group of people.  the purpose is to state an opinion in a half joking way, not specifically to insult any person/group.  just as my charging the mound comment wasn't made with the knowledge of (or in response to) any particular person or group of people who may actually hold that opinion, neither is the  kendall batting cleanup comment i just made.
if a person or group of people happens to hold that opinion* (though i wasn't aware of it at the time), is insulted because i have now implied that they rode the short bus, and files a CGV, i think it would be completely preposterous to regard the expressing of an opinion in such a manner to actually be a CGV.

and to call that "defending calling people names" is really a stretch.
as i said in my long comment, it seems to me like you're just looking for something to get upset about, ever since you baited me on this issue with your initial response.

the irony is that a few weeks ago, i didn't think YOU should be making jokes about leukemia on AN.
Although it didn't matter to me personally, and although your joke was also not aimed at any person or group of people directly, surely someone on AN has some experience with leukemia and could potentially be upset by your comment.  of course, that doesn't mean i think that comment should be considered a CGV, so i am being consistent here.

*which is almost certain in both cases, as there are 4500 people on here, each with opinions on millions of issues.  surely someone could read the comment i just made about kentall batting cleanup and get upset by it because they hold that opinion.

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 9, 2006 4:05 PM PDT up reply actions  

and to clarify ...
... it's not the specificity of the insult, but the act of insulting itself. Regardless of which bad names you call me or toher folks here, you shouldn't be calling people names.
(It's scandinavian) - salb918 @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 9, 2006 9:39 AM PDT up reply actions  

uhh, i was being facetious
maybe you need thicker monkey skin.

who did i insult?
who was my comment directed towards?
how did i call either you OR other folks "bad names"?

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 9, 2006 3:14 PM PDT up reply actions  

Can you not have a problem...
with the Kendall thing and still be a sissy? Just asking...
Bubblegum

by Ice Cream on May 3, 2006 11:02 AM PDT up reply actions  

nope, you can't
sorry, wish i could help you there, but i don't make the rules.  
A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 11:14 AM PDT up reply actions  

I have a problem with the Kendall thing
And using your logic, since you've just called me "a sissy who should consider following ice dancing," that gives me the right to charge you and take you down, since manhood challenges cannot be allowed to stand unanswered.  So will you be at tonight's game, X?

<exagerated for dramatic effect, I'd probably only give xbox a grizzly bear-style bluff charge to see if he'd climb a tree, or the third deck stairs>

Defeat d'Anaheim!

by FreeSeatUpgrade on May 3, 2006 6:59 AM PDT reply actions  

The line of logic that he used
was kind of pathetic.  
"The only way that you can disagree with me is if you are somehow flawed and unworthy of the title 'BASEBALL FAN'."  

I do not think that is fair or good logic at all.  

That said, I do not really have a problem with the fight as it happened.  This is part of baseball.  I can understand why people question it though, especially if they have kids.

"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 3, 2006 7:07 AM PDT up reply actions  

If that kid goes 13 years without getting
into a fight, then the parent deserves some kind of award.

by southofcruiseamerica on May 3, 2006 9:18 AM PDT up reply actions  

why should having kids matter in this argument?

"I can understand why people question it though, especially if they have kids."

It's almost like you are saying that because of kids, anything anyone does, they have to pause and think of the impact it will have on the children out there...which is total bull-shit.

Stop asking other people to raise your children.  

by sf drift king on May 3, 2006 11:43 AM PDT up reply actions  

I am not asking anybody to raise my kids
please do not assume that I am.  I am saying that I wonder how I would explain this issue to my son and it might be difficult.  Which puts me in a place of being more cautions with how much I applaud the situation.

OK?

"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 3, 2006 12:55 PM PDT up reply actions  

This wasn't directed toward you
but as a overall general response at those out there who keeps bringing 'the kids' into this fight debate.

by sf drift king on May 4, 2006 7:07 PM PDT up reply actions  

sorry
sorry that I took it as directed at me.
"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 7, 2006 9:50 PM PDT up reply actions  

"pathetic"
does saying that the line of logic i used "was kind of pathetic" constitute a CGV?

perhaps our CGV expert monkeyball can give us a ruling on that one...

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 1:07 PM PDT up reply actions  

if it ain't aimed at me, I got no opinion
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:21 PM PDT up reply actions  

I refuted the argument and not the poster
thus it does not violate the terms that we agree to in order to post here.  
Your statement, "people who think this way are pansies." in so many words is attacking.  Attacking their argument is a different thing. I attacked the logic that you used.

Chill.  You disagree with people.  It is ok to disagree.  Just do not insult those who you disagree with.

"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 3, 2006 1:24 PM PDT up reply actions  

freeseatupgrade, notice how i differentiated
between the rules of baseball and laws that govern people's conduct outside of baseball.

baseball has written and unwritten rules for those that play baseball, they are not necessarily the same as the rules people must live by (state and federal laws) outside of participation in a baseball game.

i'd once again say that anyone who doesn't see a difference between baseball and the real world is delusional, but apparently that might be a CGV-worthy statement...

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 1:05 PM PDT up reply actions  

Dude
Do you really not grasp that both the content and the tone of your series of posts in this thread are  insulting?  The differing opinion is all well and good and fine and sure, have your say.  But the name calling and contempt?  Nope, not okay.
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by lurkerD on May 3, 2006 1:29 PM PDT up reply actions  

I try not to post about posting
So I'll express no opinion on the CGV thang.  But we all live under both written and unwritten rules.  You write as though never the twain shall meet, but that ain't so.  Sports fan manhood challenges ("Pansy!" "Limp-wrist!" "A&E Watcher!"), at the park or in the bar, have an unwritten code of response in kind.  That's a real code, but so is the criminal one under which the prosecution would transpire if things escalated.  Criminal prosecutions of on-field violence are becoming more common too...see McSorley and Bertuzzi, for example.  The existence of one code doesn't negate the applicability of the other.

Which leads me back to my original point:  codes of conduct work, in the settle-things-on-the-field sense, when all parties know the rules and abide by them.  Kendall didn't, he escalated beyond any reason and certainly well beyond the baseball code.  That's why his actions are unjustifiable.

And if that makes someone call me a Martha-reading, Williams-Sonoma-shopping, Suburu Outback-driving fellow of questionable masculinity, well, there are codes for resolving that sort of slander.

Defeat d'Anaheim!

by FreeSeatUpgrade on May 3, 2006 1:50 PM PDT up reply actions  

I subscribe to MSL
But that's because I think Martha's hot. And they always have really good cookie recipes.
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:57 PM PDT up reply actions  

Okay, so Kendall's a red ass.
How would we have responded if it were Milton Bradley charging the mound?
Can intangibles exist? Only the ones you can touch.

by salb918 on May 3, 2006 7:10 AM PDT reply actions  

He'd probably be suspended
For the next 25 games, for one.  
"The first night, we were right there," Bradley said. "All we needed was a couple of touchdowns, and we would have had them."

by jeepers on May 3, 2006 8:40 AM PDT up reply actions  

Bullshit.
A pitcher could jaw at a hitter for any number of reasons.  If a pitcher squawked at Milton and he charged the mound, we'd all be talking about his anger management issues.
Can intangibles exist? Only the ones you can touch.

by salb918 on May 3, 2006 11:21 AM PDT up reply actions  

Yes, what if it HAD been Bradley?
If so, this would be a totally different discussion. So does Bradley have grit or just an anger problem?

by AlamedaAphid on May 3, 2006 11:39 AM PDT up reply actions  

I don't know.
What about Kendall?
Can intangibles exist? Only the ones you can touch.

by salb918 on May 3, 2006 11:40 AM PDT up reply actions  

Well, in this case I'd say neither one
I'm convinced Kendall went after Lackey in a cold-blooded bid to get suspended, because he figured he was about to get benched for a while anyway.

by AlamedaAphid on May 3, 2006 11:56 AM PDT up reply actions  

I don't think so.
Kendall's pattern is not "charge after getting a HBP", it's "charge when someone mouths off to him".
"ESPN is still replaying the Barry Bonds homer in Colorado like it was hit with a flaming toothpick by a guy in a wheelchair." - HollywoodOz

by McFood on May 3, 2006 12:02 PM PDT up reply actions  

Watch your language
No, we would be talking about Lackey baiting, which he wouldn't do to Milton with nothing but green grass between them.

Now monkey agrees with me?

by southofcruiseamerica on May 3, 2006 12:40 PM PDT up reply actions  

on this point, yes!
I'm not saying Milton would necessarily have been justified in kicking Lackey's ass -- but (a) I think Lackey would probably have been afraid to taunt Milton like he did Kendall (and I don't dispute that Lackey was a jackass to Kendall) and (b) Milton would have opened up a genuine, brand-name, CostCo-size can of whupass on  Lackey, not the generic, travel-size, "single-serving friend" packet of whupass Kendall used.
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 12:53 PM PDT up reply actions  

Right on. Forgive my ignorance,
but does your name mean that you are an Angels fan?

by southofcruiseamerica on May 3, 2006 1:24 PM PDT up reply actions  

no, but I can understand that conclusion
I just stuck a "k" in the middle of Michael Lewis's Moneyball because I thought it was funny ... and I like monkeys.

And, yes, to answer the next question, I do in fact really dig the Rally Monkey. Though I loathe the Angels. Go figure.

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:33 PM PDT up reply actions  

That's what I thought, but I wasn't sure
after yesterday.  I have to admit that it is impossible not to laugh when the monkey makes an appearance on the video board in ANA.  The monkey itself is okay...the association, not so much. Enjoy your monkeyness, or monkeyality if you prefer.

by southofcruiseamerica on May 3, 2006 1:56 PM PDT up reply actions  

I agree
Lackey knows that Milton would have genuinely kicked his ass.
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 11:49 AM PDT up reply actions  

Maybe Milton
takes a page from Marichal's playbook.
Can intangibles exist? Only the ones you can touch.

by salb918 on May 3, 2006 11:54 AM PDT up reply actions  

I just want to know what the retaliation might be
Throwing strikes?

Clearly beaning Kendall just doesn't have the same effect that it would on other players.

Golly Gee Whiz - Swisher for President in '08.

by TurnTwo on May 3, 2006 7:23 AM PDT reply actions  

Decision Kennedy
2 points for the takedown.  Gotta give that one to Joe.

Kennedy clearly provoked Kendall though.  Kennedy drills Kendall and then was off the mound and pointing at Kendall before the ball had even stopped rolling.  And he kept carping at Kendall while Kendall walks halfway up the first base line.  Then Kendall charges.

by LoveDemAs on May 3, 2006 9:32 AM PDT up reply actions  

As was with yesterday's game ...
Seems both fracases(?) were handicap matches.  Kennedy held his own, taking down Kendall with the catcher's help.  Kendall did better yesterday, bull rushing Lackey and taking him down even with getting himself in a headlock and having the catcher trying to make the stop.

That said, Kendall probably was in the wrong for his reaction, but like I'd teach my kids - avoid a fight if possible, but if you're gonna be in one, you better win.

by Rickeyfan on May 3, 2006 9:54 AM PDT up reply actions  

Kendall has proven that he's a quick learner.
That's a good thing!
"This must be heaven," he says.
"No. It's Oakland."

by Kyli on May 3, 2006 10:13 AM PDT up reply actions  

i can't believe what i just saw
The fact this is even a issue astonishes me.  If this is about kids seeing the fight then my god don't let them watch baseball, tv, movies, oh and really don't let them read too many books.  Just give them a pop-tart, play candy land with them and hope they move out of your basement before they retire.
the home run that Eric Chavez did was tight. Sprots4Kids quote

by Satchmo22 on May 3, 2006 8:29 AM PDT reply actions  

David rises up
From this morning's Chronicle:

"Even though Lackey has 6 inches and more than 30 pounds on Kendall and even though Angels catcher Jeff Mathis grabbed the A's catcher from behind, Kendall managed to take down Lackey."

If you can't appreciate the symbolic value of that, I can't help. The more I think about it the more I'm jazzed about what Kendall did. Terrific moment for the team.

by RLangford on May 3, 2006 9:22 AM PDT reply actions  

... and the stone from Dave's slingshot ...
... rolls weakly to the Giant second baseman, who tgs the oncoming runner and throws to first for the DP.
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 10:39 AM PDT up reply actions  

Troy Neel
Anyone remember many years ago when a batter was walking toward the mound and Troy Neel charged outta the dugout and laid a textbook tackle into the guy to "protect our pitcher".

by Kaybeejay on May 3, 2006 12:04 PM PDT reply actions  

I remember Waybe Gross doing that from 3rd base
is that what you're thinking of?
"ESPN is still replaying the Barry Bonds homer in Colorado like it was hit with a flaming toothpick by a guy in a wheelchair." - HollywoodOz

by McFood on May 3, 2006 12:48 PM PDT up reply actions  

players charge the mound all the time
i wonder, do fans of other teams have big debates over whether such behavior is acceptable every time it happens?

or is it an a's fan thing?

or perhaps a bay area thing?

A's v Giants "is kind of like the difference between going to see the Ramones and going to see the Bee Gees. A's fans will go see the Ramones." -BB 07/27/05

by xbhaskarx on May 3, 2006 1:09 PM PDT reply actions  

This was a rare situation
I'm not saying it's never happened before, but I personally can't recall a batter charging the mound based just on the pitcher taunting him.

Whether one agrees with Kendall's motivation or not, I believe it is a relatively rare occurrence unless you can demonstrate otherwise.

And I thought that diversity of opinion and lively debate were two of the things we all prized about AN.

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:24 PM PDT up reply actions  

Why?
Why do you feel the need to make sweeping insults about the fact that people tend to disagree with you in this and the other thread?  Why?  

I tend to agree that the fight was not that big a deal but I disagree with the manner that you have argued it, basically saying that all people who disagree with you are basically cowards.  That does not add to your argument and it does add to the amount of hostillity in the conversation.  It seems that you do not want to exchange thoughts but rather polorize people and use broad judgments to do so.

"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 3, 2006 1:29 PM PDT up reply actions  

Kendall == Crazy like a Fox
I've been thinking this over (props to lurkerD for starting the conversation), and I think we have to take a step back and look at the whole situation.

I admit that I was stoked to see that there was a brawl in the game... and until lurkerD's diary, I didn't even consider that it could be a negative thing. Upon further review however, I still don't think it was negative.

This is a game where one man hurls a ball at between 80 and 100 mph at another man. Every once in a while, a batter gets hit. Usually, it is a mistake -- but every once in a while a pitcher throws at a batter on purpose. In the National League, you'll see less of this, mainly because the pitcher has to bat himself. In the AL, there are very few repercussions for the pitcher. Until he incurs the wrath of the umpire, he can pitch dangerously close to batters all day long.

Kendall gets hit a lot. One of the many reasons for this is that he doesn't get out of the way of inside pitches. I doubt that he likes it though. I can see Kendall hearing Lackey's comment, "Stick that thing out there" and reading his body language and taking that to mean that a pitch might be coming at him on purpose - if not during this AB, then at a later time.

Kendall has two choices:

  1. Say something or keep quiet, but take no action, resting in the knowledge that Lackey is gonna take a shot at him at some point in the future.
  2. Let Lackey know that he won't go quietly by charging the mound.
You can argue that the violence he chose doesn't solve anything... but at the very least, Lackey now has to think twice about plunking him now, whereas if he went quitely, Lackey would not hesitate at all. Is this worth the effort? Bear in mind that Lackey could send a small hard object traveling at 90 miles an hour at Kendall's head, or any other part of his body. If I'm Jason Kendall, and I can reduce the chance of a pitcher gunning for me in any way, I'm going to act - this is my livelihood (if not my very life) we're talking about here.

Again, this is the AL - there are no direct repercussions  for a pitcher throwing at a batter (suspensions don't count in this case) other than charging the mound. Kendall did what he thought he had to do - and in so doing, he sent a message to Lackey and the rest of the Angels (if not the whole league) that gunning for him and his teammates is not acceptable.

by RickeySteals on May 3, 2006 1:17 PM PDT reply actions  

I justed posted this on the other diary...
But decided that this where it belongs.

I applaud Kendall for what he did, and it's for the machismo respect and mental edge aspect.

I also think that it's letting the Angels know that this is not their division, that it's not OK for the A's to finish second, and it's DEFINITELY not OK to try and disrespect us - remember in 2004 when Jason Varitek basically did the same thing - only it was A-Rod who was mouthing off, and being the "gritty" guy on the team - he got right in A-Rod's face gave his punk ass a shove and let it be known that the REed Sox were not the Spankees whipping boys any longer (and although they lost the division, they were able to get over the intimidation factor of being down 3-0 to the Yanks, beacuse why - because they weren't intimidated)...

Last season when Lackey did hit Kendall, was when the Angels were taking the division by beating the A's, and so in response (frustration, anger, psychotic or whatever else is being said about him) Kendall let it be known that the A's are herre to play, and will not go down quietly.

This is huge mentally - and where some say overreaction, I say it's about fuc&*ng time. It's time that someone on the A's said enough is enough... especially when a drooling half-wit is the one making these statements.

So I say hell yes Kendall - may this pay dividends in the end...and let's hear it for our fighting A's...

And if that's to much for you, go have a cappucino at Pac-Bell Park while listening to the Bee-Gee's....

by SD Erik on May 3, 2006 1:27 PM PDT reply actions  

careful ...
Look. I disagree strongly with your conclusion, but you argued it well and there are certainly at least two valid stands to make on this point.

But, everyone, please stop with the impugning of one another's masculinity/heterosexuality. That's really, really, really not cool.

It's fine to say that Kendall wouldn't want to be seen as such, and that's why he charged the mound; that's a valid and trenchant argument.

But to say that anyone who disagrees with you is less of a man -- and especially is less of a man for having either effeminate affectations and/or (note that the two are not mutually inclusive) being gay -- is really rude and offensive to a fairly significant portion of AN and the human race.

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:38 PM PDT up reply actions  

<Annika Sorenstrom venereal disease>
Thank you! (and you know what they say about the LPGA...)
Defeat d'Anaheim!

by FreeSeatUpgrade on May 3, 2006 1:52 PM PDT up reply actions  

that they all putt two-handed?
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 1:59 PM PDT up reply actions  

Well yes, that, but also
that they have codes for settling things on the fairways.  Slow play?  Charge the green!
Defeat d'Anaheim!

by FreeSeatUpgrade on May 3, 2006 2:16 PM PDT up reply actions  

charge the greens fees, anyway
... but tip the caddy in cash ...
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 2:18 PM PDT up reply actions  

Never did I say anything to the effect
Of one's sexuality or masculinity...I was inferring to Laissez-Faire attitude of the patrons of Pac-Bell whom are all for PC and turning the cheek in the face of adversity. And that was what I was saying to the people clamoring for Kendall to "grow up" or "should have handled it like an adult" - So I apologize if my inferences weren't clear - because those were things that I wasn't attacking.

by SD Erik on May 3, 2006 2:14 PM PDT up reply actions  

sorry for jumping down your throat
... especially because you weren't the worst offender.

But you gotta admit, cappuccinos and Bee-Gees? Those are, in the way you used 'em, loaded terms.

I mean, they're no "nasturtium-sniffing," mind you ...

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 2:20 PM PDT up reply actions  

SD Erik
You were doing okay until that last sentence.  That needs to be left off.
Nothing says fun like Premium Meat!

by lurkerD on May 3, 2006 1:48 PM PDT up reply actions  

Once again
I apologize if my intentions weren't clear...I explained them above, and you're right - I probably didn't need to say that in order to get my point across...I was just reading the numerous posts that were chastising JK and I myself got frustrated and charged the cyber mound in my attempt to be a cerebral assassin in defense of our "gritty" guy - to whom alot of people have thrown "inside" posts at...

by SD Erik on May 3, 2006 2:19 PM PDT up reply actions  

Yup
That was me chastising JK, throwing "inside" posts, etc, there on the cyber mound!  Thanks for responding.
Nothing says fun like Premium Meat!

by lurkerD on May 3, 2006 2:24 PM PDT up reply actions  

Yeah! He has grit, heart and, um, disc brakes?
"ESPN is still replaying the Barry Bonds homer in Colorado like it was hit with a flaming toothpick by a guy in a wheelchair." - HollywoodOz

by McFood on May 3, 2006 2:57 PM PDT up reply actions  

those aren't disc brakes!
I think they're the exploded view of the robotic eye mechanism from City of Lost Children.
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 3:01 PM PDT up reply actions  

Um, I don't get it. Golf?
"ESPN is still replaying the Barry Bonds homer in Colorado like it was hit with a flaming toothpick by a guy in a wheelchair." - HollywoodOz

by McFood on May 3, 2006 3:54 PM PDT up reply actions  

Big Lebowski reference...
... they may not be disc brakes, but I don't think its a bowling ball either.

by RickeySteals on May 3, 2006 3:58 PM PDT up reply actions  

Clutch
And, yes, not-particularly-relevant Big Lebowski quote.

by AlamedaAphid on May 3, 2006 4:04 PM PDT up reply actions  

If Kendall
is coarse grit, who on the team is fine grit?

by peanut gallery on May 3, 2006 2:57 PM PDT up reply actions  

Let's end this discussion...
and all say "Thank you Jason Kendall for beating up on those F***ing Angels and Slingblade for all of us."  

I hope it felt gooooooood!!!  My only objection was that that damn Rally Monkey wasnt standing there between Kendall and Slingblade.  Kendall could have taken them both out.  AH, what coulda been...

President of the Brent Gates Fan Club

by SoCal As Fan on May 3, 2006 3:21 PM PDT reply actions  

You guys sure know how to ...
throw a bucket of cold water on an awesome win.

If some of you don't know that retaliation,fights etc is part of the game of baseball then that ignorance is on you. Your moral diatribes are humorous to those of us over 40.

by IM4Oakgal on May 3, 2006 3:29 PM PDT reply actions  

you sure know how to ...
... not actually read people's comments yet offer sweeping and erroneous generalizations of 'em.

I don't think anyone has actually said that such incidents aren't part of the game, or flat-out shouldn't ever happen, or aren't understandable in some way. The general bone of contention has been whether Kendall's was justified. Myself, I can't recall an instance of a batter charging the mound solely in response to a verbal taunt from the pitcher, and I think it's a pretty rare incident.

So, careful who you're calling "ignorant."

(And I'm not arguing that you have to read every single post in a diary before making a comment. Lord knows I've done that -- especially when grover and oaktoon are going at it. But if you're gonna make blanket condemnations, you should be more careful.)

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 3:47 PM PDT up reply actions  

LMAO
 Now the moral diatribe comes flying towards me. Learn to let something go. You are  a talented writer one of the best on AN but you have whined about this to adnauseum. I am surprised that X showed you as much patience as he did. I read plenty of your posts BTW and I was impressed with the writing style but not the content.

by IM4Oakgal on May 3, 2006 3:59 PM PDT up reply actions  

thanks, and good points
We can all agree to disagree. That's fine.

Just don't be throwing around "ignorance," at people, 'K?

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 4:32 PM PDT up reply actions  

Ok agreed.
But I did say ignorance not stupidity . There is a big DIFFERECE.

by IM4Oakgal on May 3, 2006 4:39 PM PDT up reply actions  

agreed!
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 5:46 PM PDT up reply actions  

here is the problem
with your argument--it's by far the minority opinion!  I read the room (literally) and it appears to be pretty much you, lurkerD, and FSU against the Nation on this one.  Well, you three plus me; I agree with you, too.  

You've done more than your fair share in dealing with the majority's irresistible urge to mock the minority today.  Yes, quite a thread of mockery it's been, from xman's opening salvo of "anybody who has a problem with the Kendall thing ... is a sissy" to IM4Oakgal's crafty I'm-so-above-all-this arguments toward the bottom of the thread.  Anyway, sorry I couldn't have been there helping out.  I was with you in spirit.  

Do you think more people would have voted for the AJ Pyrzynski poll option if the question had read "Jason Kendall, IN THIS INSTANCE, was ..."

by rubin sierra on May 3, 2006 6:59 PM PDT up reply actions  

Today's thread
did, alas, deteriorate in tone.  And while certainly the opinion is minority (though there are a few more supporters then you've named there by my read), most of the conversation stayed civil and pretty interesting, especially yesterday.
Nothing says fun like Premium Meat!

by lurkerD on May 3, 2006 7:17 PM PDT up reply actions  

I think people are little too sensitive but...
 I didn't mean to sound so smug with you all . I just get tired of the whining stuff.  Fights happen, accept it. I prefer the old ways of dealing with it myself.  Not what people say is the "old school", but the old school.  Someone throws close, accept it as part of the game.  Get over it and play ball!  Let the Drysdales on your team deal with it, if you have any, and they were the exception.  Someone hits your teammate, take your base, but take note.
Then if someone throws close, take further note of it, and make sure to brush the other guy back, maybe even the pitcher if you're in a league where pitchers bat.  Since throwing inside should be part of the game anyway, make sure you throw close twice.  Usually, that should be the end of it, but if it isn't, then you can start to talk retaliation. However,if a fight breaks out over some nasty words so be it.

by IM4Oakgal on May 3, 2006 10:37 PM PDT up reply actions  

thank you
I appreciate the sentiment and the support. And, as I've said in a couple of places, I regret the off-the-deep-end comments I made to folks on Tuesday.

I have no problem being in the minority -- that's not the issue (well, it's part of the issue, in that I have not, as IM4oakgal pointed out, been able to let it go and there's always one more person in the majority to respond to).

But when the majority or the minority is throwing insults around, I get pretty hopping mad. Especially when it's being done by the majority, that's crossing the line.

And regarding your final question: no, I don't think the wording of the poll option would have changed much, results-wise.

Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 4, 2006 10:36 AM PDT up reply actions  

BTW
 Most people probably know this but in case anyone doesn't  remember... The Yankees used to bench their own players 5 games for fighting aside from any league penalties.

When a fight used to break out the benches cleared but the players didn't get tossed all that often . Nothing like today.

by IM4Oakgal on May 3, 2006 4:19 PM PDT reply actions  

I think Macha's version of that would be ...
... fight on the field -- NO BLIZZARD FOR YOU! ONE YEAR!
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 5:47 PM PDT up reply actions  

Boy Monkeyball
I am not on your side in this arguement, but I feel like you are being given crap (and not in a poo-flinging way) for the wrong reasons.

Lets try this simple Q&A:

1) Is fighting an accepted part of baseball's unwritten rules and something you feel at times is acceptable?

Monkeyball: "yes"
Critics of Monkeyball: "yes"

2) Are there times when a player is completely justified in charging the mound?

Monkeyball: "yes"
Critics of Monkeyball: "yes"

3) In this case do you feel that Kendall was justified in charging the mound?

Monkeyball: "no"
Critics of Monkeyball: "yes"

Ah ha!  We have now found the single bone of contention.  So, there is no "moral diatribe" but rather a specific opinion that in this case Kendall did not have proper cause to charge the mound.  

(Just for the record though -- Lackey had hit Kendall w/ a pitch last season and I am sure had mouthed off to JK and other A's players in the past.  I think all of that added up just made Kendall snap and charge even though the immediate provocation did not seem to justify it.)

by AsFanInLA on May 3, 2006 4:37 PM PDT reply actions  

<offers banana>
If it had been Crosby who charged the mound, I guess that would be the Bones of contention ...
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 3, 2006 5:48 PM PDT up reply actions  

This is off topics but I thought AN would
enjoy reading this. I was over at HH yesterday in the "heat is on" diary. Someone on the site made a comparison of Kendall and Erstad, and I personally thought he made a valid point. Right after that post LA Seitz said the one difference was that Erstad wasn't a pussy. I have posted over at HH enough for them to know that I wasn't an Angels fan but I have minded my p's and q's. In response to the pussy statement, I said something to the fact that Erstad was a punter in college and you can't get much more pussy than that, and for the first time ever, Rev didn't have a comback and deleted my post.

by breedingewoks on May 3, 2006 11:35 PM PDT reply actions  

placekicker, maybe
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 4, 2006 10:38 AM PDT up reply actions  

Lowest of the low: Holder
"ESPN is still replaying the Barry Bonds homer in Colorado like it was hit with a flaming toothpick by a guy in a wheelchair." - HollywoodOz

by McFood on May 4, 2006 11:12 AM PDT up reply actions  

second-string holder
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 4, 2006 1:04 PM PDT up reply actions  

I'm sick of you and your constant game of...
one-downsmanship!
In defense of the Einar Diaz trade, his stats are very good. He has an excellent vowel/consonant ratio.

by McFood on May 4, 2006 5:02 PM PDT up reply actions  

that, sir, is an insult!
I engage in one-downsmonkeyship.
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 4, 2006 5:14 PM PDT up reply actions  

AW! You sunk my monkeybatlleship!
In defense of the Einar Diaz trade, his stats are very good. He has an excellent vowel/consonant ratio.

by McFood on May 4, 2006 11:30 PM PDT up reply actions  

pret-ty sneaky, sis!
Shut, shut, shut your cold, mean mouth! - Poppy @('.')@

by monkeyball on May 5, 2006 10:28 AM PDT up reply actions  

2nd string
2nd string towel boy to the 2nd string water boy to the 2nd string kicker........
"Mommy and Daddy are going to take a nap before the baseball game starts..."

by Athletics fan and runner on May 4, 2006 5:09 PM PDT up reply actions  

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