Oaktoon's Potential Farewell Open Thread
Initially I was going to suggest that grover start this thread, since he posted at 12:30 in the morning, a great post at the bottom of the 330-comment comment-a-ganza (comment-a-palooza?) prompted by oaktoon's diary. But though it's only an hour later, now it's safe to assume that all, including grover, are asleep, and grover might very well not receive any suggestion I make that he start a new thread until midday tomorrow, by which time who knows, the A's and Tigers could be tied 11-11 in the 6th, and all community guidelines may have been removed as the community descends into total anarchy due to Zito-angst.
So I'll do it myself. I just wanted to create this space to continue the Oaktoon/CGV soap-opera that so intrigued all of us yesterday. We talk A's baseball here, and baseball in general. We talk television and movies ... we talk players' asses. We get sophisticated and debate steroids. But for all that, nothing really draws our interest like a fight--when the discussion between members gets heated. (And now that I've characterized us all as simplistic rubber-neckers, I have to say that yesterday's thread was so fun to read because of the INTELLIGENT argument--which it could very-well be argued, would descend into unreadable crap without the CGVs.)
My own two cents: Blez's need to police the site goes without saying. But it's interesting how nothing brings about a flurry of activity on AN more than those masters of provocation who tend to disregard the rules. Reminds me of Robb's diaries last fall, which were also prolifically commented-on. Oaktoon also reminds me of Terrell Owens. Though they (O.T. and T.O.) do disregard certain rules, they also appeal to our sense of fairness in claiming that they ought not to be penalized. And their value to their respective teams (or in Oak's case, to the site) cannot be easily dismissed. I think the Eagles bungled the T.O. situation ... but how should they have handled it? Your thoughts?
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I'm not sure
Alas, the whole "Dallas" part of the TO saga doesn't really lend itself to our little saga here. There wouldn't be anything poetic about you having to go become a regular at LoneStar Ball. Hopefully we don't go down that road--to that end, I really liked your diary today.
But to play with that analogy a bit more ... if you're like T.O., and AN is like the Eagles ... would Blez be ... Andy Reid? And Donovan McNabb would have to be ... Nico? Grover?
by rubin sierra on Apr 20, 2006 2:31 PM PDT up reply actions
Grover would be Hugh Douglas
To the sense of fairness issue
However, there's always the "I'm going on a hiatus" approach but then there's the whole ego-in-the-way thing (and not much grace) attached. Besides, I actually tried that once and I couldn't stay away for as long as I had intended to stay away for.
On the Potential Farewell thread someone wrote something that should be taken to heart and rather than paraphrase it, I'll link to it.
The insult diary is a bad idea
If I wanted to read insults
Simple as this
The whole thing with you saying blez's preview was a yawm was insane, why would you say that to someone who worked really hard to make it? We all have our opinions (except machabot) but you can't go saying all of them outloud.
It wasn't even constructive criticism, so don't even use that as an excuse.
Well my rants done, and I guess i'll be waiting for OT's response instead of him making an apology
On the topic of bashing writing...
by LD on Apr 20, 2006 11:41 AM PDT up reply actions
LD...
(Pardon any of my bitterness today, it WOULD have been my 5th anniversary today! lol)
by PosterNutbag44 on Apr 20, 2006 12:33 PM PDT up reply actions
Ouch!
What's the difference between a brown noser and an ass kisser?
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Depth perception!
by LD on Apr 20, 2006 12:53 PM PDT up reply actions
double standard? not so much I think
And LD--if your point is that it can't be a CGV to call blez's baseball preview "a yawn," I agree with you. All of us are writers on this site, and we all make ourselves vulnerable by posting ... that we "work hard" on our posts does not make them immune to criticism, nor would many of us want that. I for one would prefer negative feedback to no feedback at all, and perhaps would hereby like to "report" the entire AN community for not commenting enough on my various diaries.
by rubin sierra on Apr 20, 2006 12:55 PM PDT up reply actions
You got it.
I absolutely don't think it is a personal attack to call Blez's preview a "yawn" you're right. I do also think there is a big double-standard, though, if OT is getting strikes against him for calling people stupid or morons when half of this site including its moderators call Macha, Ratto, Morgan, etc. the same things on a daily basis. Thin-skinned is an understatement for that kind of stance in my book.
by LD on Apr 20, 2006 1:05 PM PDT up reply actions
I do recognize...
by PosterNutbag44 on Apr 20, 2006 1:24 PM PDT up reply actions
heh ...
Ultimately, I don't think you or any other less-vocal members should worry about it. Say what you want, be who you are it almost certainly won't be a problem. They have only issued 25 strikes in the 8-10 months that this system has been in place and almost all of them seem to have been to the few people who were banned - plus two for the 'Toon.
I mean, I certainly wouldn't question the validity of our feelings but I really don't understand why anyone would feel the need to worry about it.
Yeah
by haren4prez on Apr 20, 2006 4:22 PM PDT up reply actions
I like Krukow, and I haven't reported you!
Thanks. Now, here's a case of bananna's....
by haren4prez on Apr 20, 2006 5:19 PM PDT up reply actions
If it helps to clear things up any,
The sub-committee's job is strictly to look at comments that are reported, look at them in context, and compare them against the CGs as stated in the link. When four long-time users, independently, conclude the same thing--which is what happens 90+% of the time--it's pretty certain that objectively, a stated rule has been violated.
And there is simply no double-standard on AN. No complaint has ever been lodged against Blez, against me, or against any committee member, and if one is, I am fully confident that the complaint will be judged strictly against the stated CGs, and ruled on accordingly, not judged with the complainee in mind. And I think I can speak for Blez and each committee member in saying we wouldn't want it any other way.
Difference in opinion...
by PosterNutbag44 on Apr 20, 2006 1:40 PM PDT up reply actions
I totally agree with you, PNB44,
The point is, it's ok to call us on it; I would never quibble about being issued a strike if I committed a CGV. It just bugs me when people say "You should be accountable, but I'm not going to report anybody." Well ok then, fine, but...next?
To be accountable for those actions...
"Hey all you AN'ers out there, I made a goof earlier, my apologies to all. As a community we need to.....blah blah."
It isn't that hard. That is rising above and being accountable. That is being a strong leader, even through our human follies. Again, I'll go back to minding my own, it's like we are beating a dead horse anymore.
by PosterNutbag44 on Apr 20, 2006 1:59 PM PDT up reply actions
Nobody likes a tattletale...
I find that beer works wonders to relieve irritation.
by LD on Apr 20, 2006 2:57 PM PDT up reply actions
actually that's a great point
whatever else you think about me, I never do that stuff.. or even about our own players, which some also do on this site.
i meant call
Agree 100%, Devyn
No one has ever been sanctioned for stating their opinion or for disagreeing with someone (including someone in "authority"). Heck, the fact that oaktoon and Rubin Sierra can post these diaries is evidence of genuine free speech.
But you ask if someone's last name is "dense," or suggest that their mind doesn't work, or refer to their increasingly thick skulls. Those are all CGVs, and two of them were reported. End of story.
Reporting a violation isn't "snitching" any more than you "snitch" when you stand up for your community's rights by calling the police to report a theft or an assault. But if you think it's "snitching" and don't choose to report CGVs against you, that's fine--but your CGVs are still CGVs when they're reported.
For the sake of AN, I hope oaktoon can go 4 months without a CGV, can stay on AN, and can continue his excellent contributions. But if the choice is to take those excellent contributions along with CGV behavior thrown in, or leave it, it's an easy choice for me. Because the "team" is always greater than any individual, and the stated rules have to apply to everyone for the system to be fair.
on the note of "tones"...
At my school, years ago a kid with
That's how I feel about intentionally baiting known "easy targets"--and I will admit to not being 100% clean on this with oaktoon, and I apologize for that. Sometimes his tone has set me off and I haven't kept my mouth shut when I should have.
The reason the "bust the baiter" analogy doesn't extend to the situations on AN is that the provoked insists on not reporting any wrongs against him, which is his choice--and he has to accept and live with that choice.
FYI, Blez went out of his way to instruct the sub-committee to be aware of possible baiting and to be ready to act appropriately. But the sub-committee only receives complaints; it doesn't go looking for them. The rules of the blog are clear, and it's up to the community members to adhere to them and to follow procedures if they want to stand up for their rights, or the rights of those around them.
"poking the lion with a stick"
"bust the baiter"
I don't think the baiters should be busted, just that the phenomenon should be acknowledged -- and Blez has acknowledged it, so hopefully that will help (if the committee members weren't already taking baiting into consideration anyway, which they may have been).
My son has actually been "the lion" in his grade-school years... ADHD, superior IQ (or I.moose) but in special ed., and I'm sure that someone in your position actually knows our frequently-agonizing story really well without ever having met us. I'm sure that my own background experiences as a "mother lion" influence the angle at which I examine "the potential baiting of oaktoon," while also enabling me to keep in mind that the final responsibility for staying calm still unfortunately lies with the baitee.
If I may use Devyn's comment above as an example, I actually agree & sympathize with the frustration and anger expressed by people who don't like oaktoon's attitude. But in yesterday's diary, oaktoon was repeatedly admonished that his points might be taken better if he would just leave out things like "are you dense?" or "you have enough trouble with your own mind," etc... Yet Devyn finishes up his own good points with a (very mild) version of the exact thing that oaktoon is being told not to do. And okay, this comparison is pretty weak, but I hope it gets my basic point across.
As for your own flare-ups with oaktoon -- you're actually not one of the people that I think of as an initial baiter. Most, if not all, of your "first responses" to oaktoon (that I've seen) are measured & reasonable, and not looking to start anything other than a conversation.
what about "bust the 'bater"?
Find the sourse
by haren4prez on Apr 20, 2006 5:21 PM PDT up reply actions
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by haren4prez on Apr 20, 2006 5:50 PM PDT up reply actions
Sometimes 346 comments just isn't enough ...
you mean
by rubin sierra on Apr 20, 2006 12:34 PM PDT up reply actions
ah, very punny ...
such fond memories ... and I'll leave you all to speculate whether I'm referring to the largely pun free days or Nico's early puns. ; )
There are problems with the whole CGV process
I agree that there need to be standards, and I'm heartened that Blez has actually posted them for all to see. While I don't know how to solve all the problems, I think I know a way to make the whole situation less arbitrary.
Ask the "victim" of the attack if they were offended by the comment. Have Nico or Blez send them an e-mail stating that a complaint has been filed against so-and-so and they were the intended target. The sub-Committee has decreed that the terminology was offensive and therefore would like to know if they should take action. If the person wasn't offended then there was no CGV, just two people saying whatever. A warning can still be issued to the speaker of foul things. If the victim says "Yes" than go ahead and boil the perpetrator in oil... or whatever it is AN's Silent Sub-Committee does to offenders.
Personally, I see no problem
I've never flagged anyone
And when the "victim" is the complainer than the whole process works just as smoothly as before. At the very least this lets the offender know that they went too far when addressing the person, and they can learn from the mistake.
Remember our little e-mail discussion a few months ago? If I really went off on someone and you chimed in to call me an a-hole do you think I'd take offense to that?! I'd have a smile from ear to ear and take it as a compliment. Yet if someone reported your comment you'd get a strike... for paying me a compliment!
Oaktoon was just theorizing
When you say a bad thing
At least I was.
So if oaktoon knows the language that got him busted, it's likely he knows who he said it to.
one of them was definitely a comment to you
Clarification re:
Still, regardless of these specific past instances, I think your idea is interesting as a general concept.
But people also need to realize that there have been exactly 19 strikes against 15 different users issued in 9 months (plus a handful of "would-be strikes" against users who were deemed trolls and were simply banned for being trolls). Since the system went into place, there have probably been more diaries about CGVs than there have been strikes issued. Complaints are rare, and thus they are rarely about trivial comments. Mostly people do have "thick skins"; eventually, they may get sick of being insulted repeatedly.
Wait a second
I thought that was our special word... :(
Wait, it was "dense"???
for what it's worth
i support this. of the poll options, i'd add this to the first option and go with that. i don't think it needs to be a full-blown trial by jury, but if the person made a comment to sombody they knew wouldn't get offended by it, then there was no damage done.
by Eric in Atlanta on Apr 21, 2006 5:59 AM PDT up reply actions
Why waste any more time
IGNORE him......he will most certainly go away if his audience leaves......DON'T engage....when the attention is gone, the allure of "stirring the pot" will be lost. Then you will find him posting on Halo's Heaven just to get a reaction. You see, he feels obligated to be an agitator...he cannot stop this approach to life.
Problem is, you need
Speaking as a professional wildland fire fighter
If anyone is serious about leaving AN
"THIS IS MY FAREWELL DIARY"
or
"THIS IS MY LAST POST...GOODBYE AN"
JRBH is the only one I know of that made threats to leave and actually did. And even that was after months of teasing.
For myself, I no longer find ELEPHANTS IN OAKLAND a relevant blog. It's extremely negative no matter how good or bad the team is doing, and Zachary's rants about Ken Macha make his AN detractors look like his fan club. In short, I simply found it to be a waste of time.
In my opinion, THAT'S why people decide to leave.
by Rob @ Athletics Nation on Apr 21, 2006 8:54 AM PDT reply actions

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